Why do you play tennis? I play tennis because Tennis is Life.
Points are life.
For those of you who aren't familiar with the scoring system, every point starts at love. Love is the beginning. And like our life cycle, love is from which we all come. This love, however, can come through and in different forms. It can come through sadness, as seen from marriage (haha... I'm funny); happiness, seen through spontaneous acts of intercourse; and even anger, seen through violent acts of rape and assault. Even so, no matter how we begin the point we are playing. We are alive. We are a clean slate of nothingness that can advance forward no matter what circumstance brings us to the court. Like anything in life the points played are crucial in the development stages proceeding to the subsequent points in the scoring system 15, 30, 40 and then game. Let these points represent age, with each game counting as an experience at that particular age.
However, it is not the points themselves but it how the points are played. The methodology behind playing points represents not only obstacles but how we choose to overcome them. Each one of us has our own method of playing points with some serving and volleying, rallying behind the baseline, pushing, or implementing an all court game, allowing for adaptation to any stage. This is analogous to somebody choosing to be direct, waiting to see how things turn out, beating around the bush or choosing to implement any of the aforementioned depending on the situation.
It's crazy to think about this, but there are actually obstacles within obstacles of points. What most people fail to realise is that tennis a
dynamic sport, meaning that there is constant movement, transfers of energy, emotional fluctuation and much more. A major dynamic component is that the rules within a point are constantly changing. For example, a forehand is not merely a forehand but it is forehand 3-5 feet over the net at the baseline, 18-24 inches in the middle of the court, and a simple punch at the ball when you're about 3 feet away from the net. This might be hard to take in initially, but think about the various situations where points are played: a high school crush, a first job, graduating from school, getting married, having kids...The list goes on. Let each of these situations not only represent a point(age) in the game (life) but think about situations within these situations that arise. For example, you have a kid but you learn he or she will be born with a fatal disease. Which forehand (decision) are you going to hit (make) and how will it affect you (and your family )later on in the match(life)? Allow the child to be born and let it live with the disease(push), give it treatment(rally) or even go far as to abort it(serve and volley)? We're only human. We have choices. With every choice comes a consequence. Before you know it, however, the game is over and experiences have been had.
But wait...The match is not over.
How can it be after all? Every tennis match has a minimum of 12 games (6 games needed to win a set with two sets needed to win a match). This allows us as humans to relive each point in a sense that we can learn from the previous experiences that have occurred in the same stage. For example, you make an unwise tactical decision at 15-0 in the first game, but you make sure not to do the same at that same stage in the second game, allowing you to garner the point. The chance to learn from experience and make changes accordingly is a true gift from God(s) and/or the balance of good and evil (respectively...Whatever you choose to believe in). It's a beautiful thing. However, at critical games we are more likely to falter. It is harder to hit an ace when you have 5 games instead of 2 because of the benefits that can be gained and more importantly the liabilities that can show up. For example, isn't it easier to make an A on an arithmetic exam than it is to do so on a Calculus exam? (The answer is
yes hell yes). However, at latter stages we can always recall on experiences that cannot be taken away from us no matter what. Maybe you've seen all throughout the match that the opponent moves slower to his backhand side than to his forehand, letting you hit it out wide on the AD side for a winner. Furthermore, maybe you see that you can put more spin on it out wide instead of hitting it flat out side, giving you more margin for error and the opponent less pace to feed off of, as well as moving him off the court. Maybe you realise that putting in two hours of work each night for homework has never gotten you an A on a test and you set aside 5 or 6 hours to do so, increasing the probability for success. Furthermore, maybe you realise that you have a tendency not to study(practice) at all and enlist help from an outside source(a coach) to ensure an A(winning the game and/or match). The ramifications, both positive and negative, are greater when it's later. They should be after all. Why stay in it if you don't gain more benefits? Why work at a company for 20 years if they pay you the same as the schmuck who started 2 days ago(disregarding the hott secretary)?
The experience always pays off.
Bottom line.
But hold on a second.
What about the 100 mile forehand you hit ten feet behind the baseline and two feet over the net? Shouldn't that have been a 10 foot forehand with 40mph? This is most likely incongruous with the practices and previous points you've played. Desperate times call for desperate measures in life. It's inevitable and it's undeniable. Period. Notice that this low percentage shot has high risk and high reward. If you make it you gain more than points; you gain confidence, momentum and leave the opponent intimidated. If you miss it you pretty much experience the opposite of what I just said. If you invest your life savings in a small company called Apple or Microsoft...Get where I'm going with this? On the other hand, if you invested the same amount of money in Enron...Well, you probably killed yourself. Experience matters, but sometimes you have to throw it out the window, trust your instincts and accept the ramifications.
We live and we die. But like anything in life, we cannot let one incident have a profound impact on our lives. How often have you seen a story where an impoverished person grows up to be a success? How often have you seen a wealthy man commit suicide? How often have you seen Rafael Nadal come back from two sets down to win the match (with tendinitis most of the time)? How often have you seen Fernando Verdasco lose in the first round of a grand slam event( Dasco, you're my boy, don't get me wrong)? We don't see the anguish, the happiness nor the other intricacies of the match when we see the resulting score. That is the whole purpose of a match. The match is the big picture. The encompassing tale of what happens on the court. The legacy you leave behind to your child. Your grandchild. The world. Each point is merely a brief period of our lives. Each game an extended amount of time(years, decades, scores etc). How we play our points, how we play our games and more importantly how we deal with the ones we
lose define the match. Our lives
Win or lose. Short or long. Enjoyable or not. The match will end.
Tennis is life. And life is...
Step on court and see.
I'm Sean Patterson and welcome to Alley to Alley.